Mr. Reid

     I remember being worried about Reid before he was even born. I worried that he would get overlooked, neglected. How could the second child get as much of my love and attention as the first child? How could anything he did feel new and exciting? I felt kind of sad for this little boy who would come into a family with a pretty awesome toddler and big baby shoes to fill.

     Well Reid came into this world to teach me more about our Heavenly Father. Reid once again taught me about the pre-existence and how we all lived there before with our own unique personalities and Reid showed me that we all have something new and exciting to give.

     This little Mr. of ours cannot be overlooked because he is so new to us. Garret was such a lazy baby. We loved watching him just lay there and smile, and he would do that most of the day. We use to call him our little baby Buddha. Reid we affectionately call little baby Rattlesnake. He definitely has the Beck temper. He LOVES attention and when you aren't giving him what he wants he has so many sounds at so many different pitches and volumes to let you know he is please or not well please at all.

    He is just so different from Garret. He is SO expressive. His noises have so much variety and his little facials can tell a story all on their own. He frustrates us and then in seconds melts our hearts with his sweetness. We feel like we are brand new parents. We feel like Garret taught us nothing and we are learning all new lessons with Reid.

     Reid my sweet boy, you are one in a million! There has never been another one like you and there never will be. 







CAMPING

    Garret had his very first camping experience this month and it was all planned out by his fun cousin Brock. Brock stayed the night at our house and decided he really wanted to sleep outside in a tent so while Garret napped Brock wrote Uncle Ace a note asking him to please sleep outside in the tent with the boys. Ace had had a really busy work week so I thought he might not want to sleep on the hard ground. I tried to tell Brock it might not happen and that they could camp in the living room.; but that just wasn't good enough. He told me, " I think Uncle Ace will say yes, 'cause he is pretty nice."
      Ace really is nice! So when he got home and found Brock's note he was actually really excited about the idea and told Brock that camping just isn't camping without s'mores. However, Colorado is burning up....again. So fires are a no go. Inside s'mores aren't quite the same as over a campfire outside but it worked. This was another first for Garret.





     After dinner and s'mores the boys pitched the tent, grabbed a bag full of books, bundled up for a cold night and headed out to their man cave.

   I was very surprised when I woke up around 6am to feed Reid and there were not other boys in the house. These crazy boys made it all night in the night....I was very impressed. I remember trying to sleep outside as a kid and never being able to make it past 4am; it just got too cold. But they three amigos came inside a little before 7 excited to share their stories of camping outside and even more excited for a warm breakfast.

Brothers

I'm glad they'll always have each other.


HEMANgioma

Reid is a HEMAN!
He has an awful time with his stomach and the Beck Temper comes out in full, but somehow he still finds time to smile at me several hundred times a day....even in the midst of a battle with the ol' bowels.
He doesn't even blink when Garret bounces around him and occasionally on him.
He bathes with his older brother which basically means he is also learning to swim long before all of his friends.
He just turned three months yesterday and has already been clear across the country to Florida and taken a 9+ hour roadtrip to Texas.
He is strong, and brave and has a love for adventure (especially the types of adventures where he stays nestled in his mother's arms).
See what I mean? Reid is a HEMAN!

Well, like all other superheroes this Heman has an Achilles' heel.
Besides his Hulk-like temper, Reid has a HEMANgioma (found in 10% of infants and 100% of Hemans)
Hemangiomas are basically benign tumors that show up in some infants, grow fairly rapidly in the first year and then slowly go away within the next few years of the child's life.
Not usually a big deal.
But Reid's hemangioma causes a bit of a problem because of its location.
Reid's hemangioma showed up as a small bruise under his right eye at about 1 month old, but the bruise look never really changed or went away. At his two month check-up I brought it up and they sent me to the dermatologist in Durango, who then sent us to the pediatric dermatologist in Albuquerque.
After two trips to Albuquerque, one MRI and one EKG, we discovered that our sweet little Heman's hemangioma is going to have to be taken care of.
Luckily we found it early enough and  live in an awesome time of modern medicine so Reid will need to just take some medicine twice a day for 6-9 months and this Heman will be hemangioma free and his superhero vision will stay intact.
(if you look closely you can see the bump under his right eye)

(our little Heman trying to hold really still for the EKG)

(a few tears were shed by both mom and Heman)

We are so very grateful for answered prayers and the love and support of so many people.
Our little Heman has a divine mission on this earth and not even a hemangioma can keep this superhero down.

Phone Pics From Florida

Sometimes we take pictures with our phones and then forget ALL about them. So here are few more gems from our March 2013 trip to Florida.

 Small airports are the best! We flew out of the Durango airport and the Pilots brought Gar to the Cockpit and let him push all kinds of buttons and take pictures. Greatest day of his life.....if he even remembered it.

 Loves all things that move.

 Torturing Brody by not letting him in his kennel. Have you ever heard of the term Cruel and unusual punishment?

 First time shooting an airsoft gun...for both of us. We never hit the target.

Garret and his amazing G'ma. She gives and gives and gives to this little boy, his brother, their cousin and all of us rotten kids who call her mom or mother-in-law.

Love and miss you Christine!

Florida/Easter/Surprise

Besides missing our flight in Florida, we really had a GREAT time! It was so much fun to catch up with family and to enjoy some warm weather. Ace and I are so blessed to have wonderful people on both sides of our family and we truly enjoy spending time with each and everyone of them. 


Garret looked like this most of the time with his pal Brody right on his heels.

He did put on clothes long enough to help Aunt Asia and Uncle Austin move.
He loved loading items into the big truck and would run and grab more things saying "More! More!"




We loved our trip to Florida!

Then we got home and a few days later it was Easter! We colored 5 Easter Eggs (one of each color). My sisters family colored around 4 dozen eggs so thats were we headed for Easter day. But we did take Garret to his first Easter Egg Hunt the Saturday before Easter. Garret wasn't a very ambitious hunter. He got three eggs and then said "All done." So he just opened them and ate the candy. Good thing he has a competitive mother.





Surprise!
 Last summer Ace had to cover a benefit concert for Red Cross. Our beautiful state was on fire and so The Village People came and put on a fun show to help raise funds to fight the fires.
We combined business with pleasure and made it a date.
Ace surprised me last week with this picture. 
I have some great memories with Mr. Stryker and we just keep making more each day!

The Terminal

 The above picture makes it look like Garret was spending a day in the wonderful world of Disney. But alas, he was not. This picture was taken in the Orlando Airport where we lived for 2 FULL days.

  Tuesday March 26 we were suppose to fly back from Florida where we had spent a wonderful week with family and where we were able to see my friend, my old roommate, Ace's sister and my dear friend marry a wonderful man in the Orlando Temple for time and all eternity. It really was a wonderful trip but when we missed our flight that Tuesday it led us to a series of unfortunate events.
1. Missing our flight made it so we couldn't fly back into Durango until Thursday
2. Missing our flight was stressful for not only our little family but for parents and siblings on both sides.
3. Missing our flight made it so that when our dogs escaped while we were gone we  were unable to go look for them. When they were found they ended up costing a pretty penny to get them removed from the humane society.
4.Missing our flight was EXPENSIVE for our little family and for our parents who lovingly helped share the financial burden.
5.Missing our flight made a WONDERFUL trip feel so far away. We definitely got home feeling like we needed a vacation.

  The list could go on and on but really there were quite a few blessing as well. For example, this particular airport had a hotel in it. We were able to stay right in the airport and were able to sleep in beds instead of on the hard airport floor or chairs. And this particular hotel in this particular airport had a swimming pool so we were better able to entertain Garret with something more then the moving walk-way and escalators. Our families were a great help and great support. We had phone calls, financial help and upon our return we received dinner and continued phone calls. We were definitely bummed about the missed flight but we were reminded that we are blessed beyond measure by loving family on both sides, and this gift is priceless.







Reid's Blessing Day

Dear Reid,

March 3, 2013 was a great day for our little family. On this day Daddy was able to hold you in front of family, friends and our wonderful ward family and give you a beautiful blessing. He blessed you to live a life of service and to always remember your divine worth. I hope and pray that you will always remember who you are because if you do, you will be an unstoppable force for good. I love you so much and want you to know you are loved by not only Daddy, Garret and me but also by so many others -- and a few of those others made a special effort to be their on your beautiful blessing day. Always remember who you are, sweet boy.

 A few of the BECK CLAN

 A few of the STRYKER CLAN

 Blessed with goodly parents


Love, 
Mom

Weekend in the Lone Star State

In February Ace had a long weekend so what did we decide to do? Take a road trip. Reid was only three weeks old and already out to see the world. We really enjoy spending time with the Burchams so we thought it would be worth it to take a 9 hr car trip to see their bright happy faces. It was a beautiful and lazy weekend.

I love the Burchams yard.


Sara, Reid and I were there too but apparently I didn't get any pictures of us three.

Some things we discovered on this trip are that we still really like the Burchams (even after our long drive there and back), Reid does not appreciate when I eat large amounts of chocolate, and Texas highway patrol officers can be very nice when you speed and break other of their highway laws.